![]() ![]() You must remember to stay aware and conscious of your unique, and near endless, impact on your partner. The difference is that, with an Alpha, outside influence doesn’t always reach as deep. Chances are that he is the exact same to you. You are the most important person to your partner, with the most power to impact his thoughts, opinions and feelings. Show your suppor t as he learns new things instead of limiting his potential by insisting you do it yourself. Sure, you may actually be a better painter, but does it really matter in the big picture? No. Aside from a few splatters of paint that may need to be cleaned up later, there’s really no risk in letting your man take the lead and get his DIY on. I urge you to keep things in perspective and understand the difference between letting your partner paint a room and encouraging your partner to rebuild your car’s transmission with zero mechanical experience. While perhaps you truly are better suited to tackle a particular task, it’s important that your partner feel he has the space and permission to step up and try his hand at something new. When it comes to your relationship with your partner, this can enter dangerous territory. Let him into your struggle and allow him to help make things better.Īs an Alpha, it may be easy to assume that you can do something better, faster or more efficiently than someone else. ![]() If you’re having a tough day, consider leaving your “business suit” at the door and allowing yourself to be vulnerable with your partner. Your partner has the fundamental instinct to care for you, protect you and provide you comfort. You have the fundamental ability to support, nurture and honour your partner. Instead, I ask you to view your natural feminine energy and instinct for what it is – incredible, powerful and positive. ![]() Because, frankly, females are anything but. I encourage you to avoid viewing femininity as expressing weakness. You have the distinct ability to be alluring, persuasive, inviting and communicative without saying a single word. ![]() There is nothing more discouraging than being encouraged to try something new or make a decision, only to then feel ridiculed or second-guessed along the way.ĭid you know that feminine energy is boundlessly powerful? You have the ability to make someone feel entirely at ease, accepted and loved with only your body language. Steering clear of criticism, especially amongst his friends and family, is very important. When your partner does take his turn steering the ship, I urge you to avoid becoming a back seat driver. What’s more important, still, is that you honour this energy and see it not as in competition with your own abilities to lead, but as an opportunity to loosen your hold on the reigns and allow your inner Beta to enjoy a little time away from the wheel. That said, it’s important that your male partner be given the space and permission to express his own masculine energy and Alpha qualities. Most men value and appreciate a confident, self-assured female partner. This is, quite simply, due to the two fundamental human energies – the masculine and feminine. While this can lead to impressive accomplishments in a career, it can create challenging tensions at home. More often than not, these leading ladies wind up being “The Boss” in many areas of their lives. Ready? Let’s go.Īlpha females are powerful forces. As you probably know by now, that’s the topic we’ll be tackling in today’s post. What it means, however, is that striking balance in your romantic relationship can be a touch more challenging. And, my friend, I can assure you that there is nothing wrong with being a powerful, independent woman. In a world in which a million little signs are sent every single day telling you to be powerful, confident and in control, it can be difficult to let up on the reins and allow your inner Beta to have her turn. However, that statement is one of those things that are a whole lot easier said than done when you’re an Alpha female. ![]()
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